Wednesday, October 6, 2010

The process

First I have to start this off with something that has nothing to do with the post itself. I just find being a mommy so fun so I wanted to share that my 18mo old has found that she can stash things in her diaper, so changes have become so interesting. And the 4year old GIRL... MY PRINCESS... has some odd fascination with spitting. This is not something I thought I would ever have to deal with with Alana. I have even told her its gross, and that a princess would never spit and its not helping. The good thing is that Issac is no longer working 12 hour days 6 days a week so he is around all the time to help....AND HE DOES HELP. Hes such an awesome papi and really pulls his weight around here.

So in my last post I told you about the amazing jobs we got in Guadalajara. The next step was to find a house to live in up there. Our first trip up there we stayed at some friends house with the idea that this would help us get an early start each day in looking for a place. The good thing was they had a house phone and we were able to use that. We seriously put more min on our phones in three days than we normally do in a month and a half. The only bad thing was that these guys live (with traffic) almost an hour from where we were looking. We had got in contact with a realtor... well sort of. Here is how that exchange went. We e-mailed her on Thur saying we were interested in looking at houses the first of the next week and when would she be available. She wrote back that she would get a list together for us by then. Come Sat we hadn't heard back about an appointment so we called her. She told us to call her when we got to Guad on Monday and she would meet us. We called her when we got there on Monday morning and she said she had things to do all day and could meet with us that evening. We called her that evening and she said she had just rented all but one of the places she had to show us and it couldn't be seen till the next day. The good thing was we actually had a few things to do with our new boss that day and we had a place to go back to in town (sort of). We also managed to get some other appointments set up to view places the next day so it was semi productive. The next day we headed out looking for more numbers and viewing the places we had already set up. The realtor was finally ready for us to view the house around 2 that afternoon. We loved this house and it was the one we are getting but we spent another evening and next day looking at our other options. Its about 30min from work and we were not sure we wanted to be that far. Believe it or not my girls were so good during all this. We had toys and lots of food stocked in the truck and each day let them spend an hour or so playing at burger king. This is a big deal to my little country kids who only see burger king every so often when we visited the city.
Although the realtor was so frustrating to deal with this was only the beginning. Because we have never lived in Guad we had to get a fiador, or a cosigner who has property and a deed to prove it in the city. At the last min Issac found a friend who would do it for us but he was as difficult to get anything set up with as the realtor was and we actually never ended up meeting up with the guy in person and just went and got the papers from his parents at their house. This came during our second trip the first being a whole wasted day trip to Guad. The only reason that was a big deal is because we are running very low on funds. Issac quite a week and a half ago so we could get all this running done and I dont get paid till the end of this week. Considering we were living check to check this is cutting us to the grind. Thankfully my sister loves us very much and knows we are very close to not being broke so she has loaned us some money. I then decided it would be a good idea to throw 3-500p down the drain when I scraped up against a parked car (thank God it was in Tepa) and broke out their tail light. I was so upset and mad at myself I have never done something like that and am normally a great driver. My sister says I can blame it on being prego so I will. ;)Like I said I'm glad it happened here because we know a guy who we trust will fix it and only what we messed up and not over charge us. Also he is taking his time, I hate that for the other guy (they were actually really nice people) but for us its better to not have to pay it until I start getting paid from the new job.
So now we have turned in our papers, and the contract should be getting written up today for the new rental. (Ill explain the house better when I can post pics and stuff) Our hope is that tomorrow at 10am we will be loading up our truck and moving. I think I may have to work some on Friday but still not sure on that either. Ill post more about the job on a different post. Today we are waiting on the guy we found who has a truck to verify if he will be able to help us tomorrow and for the landlord to call and tell us for sure the contract will be ready to be signed and the keys handed over tomorrow. I guess I'm lucky they are letting us know today and not tomorrow. So here we go moving again, dont read my old posts because I'm pretty sure I swore we were not going to move again for 2 years after we found our current house. That was 4months ago, seriously God does like to keep us on our toes.
So far I have been able to focus on the fact that I know God is in all this and try to stay calm and have faith. Although I have to say I have had a few random outburst (in private of course) and the crying fit when I hit the car but all in all I'm doing much better with all this than I would have been 2 years ago. I just have to remember that this is a part of my refining process and hopefully when we get to the other side I can shine even brighter for the Lord.

We are so excited about what the future holds for us as a family and excited to be closer to some of our friends. Keep us in mind this week that things go as smoothly as possible being that we are in Mexico. lol
Thanks everyone for your great comments and although, I'm not on the computer as much right now with all this moving craziness, believe me I will be blogging again regularly soon. I have so many different things I want to write about and am making notes so I dont forget. But for now we are totally consumed with this move.

5 comments:

  1. Sounds like things are coming together!!! Can we see pictures of the new place soon??

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  2. Again, congratulations!

    What an exciting time in your lives :)

    Good luck w/ the move, and make sure to let us know how it goes!!!

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  3. Oh, moving... it was hard just moving myself and Nick. How to do it with two toddlers and a baby in the belly -- suerte!

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  4. I AM NOT SURE HOW TO DO THIS BLOG THING...BUT I WANT TO LET YOU KNOW HOW YOUR BLOG CHANGED MY LIFE IN A MATTER OF MINUTES. I AM CURRENTLY LIVING IN MEXICO WITH MY HUSBAND AND CHILDREN. I KNEW I WAS NOT THE ONLY ONE IN MY SITUATION HERE BUT I HAD YET TO FIND SOMEONE WHO IS GOING THROUGH THE SAME THINGS I AM. JUST KNOWING OTHERS OUT THERE HAVE THE SAME JOYS, WORRIES, BLESSING, TROUBLES AS I DO MAKES ME FEEL NOT SO ALL ALONE. I HAVE A LOT OF QUESTION TO ASK AND I AM HOPING THAT MAYBE YOU CAN HELP ME OUT. YOU HAVE TRULY BEEN A BLESSING TO ME AND YOU DIDNT EVEN KNOW IT. THANK YOU SO MUCH FOR SHARING YOUR EXPERIENCE WITH ME AND ALL THE OTHERS WHO ARE IN OUR SAME SITUATION. JILL

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  5. Well everyone for tonight Im just responding to comments. I had some trouble getting logged on due to needing to clear out my cauche what ever that is. I had wanted to write a whole post about the rest of the experience but that will have to wait till tomorrow.
    gringation-pics to come for sure just not sure when, I just found my camera bat charger and its charging as we speak. lol
    Alice- It sucked thats all I need to say. ;) Im glad its over. And like I said to you after the last move I hope this is the last for a couple years, but dios sabe!!!!
    Jill- Yeah another reader and someone who needed it. Girl there are so many of us and these ladies and gents in our little blog community have been my support over the last two years. Check out my blog roll to find lots of other great blogs that can help you out. Thanks for letting me know what a blessing it is to read. I know some of my older posts can be darn right depressing but basically I'm just always honest about how things are going and how I feel about it. Its what I would have wanted and needed... well and still do. Believe me Ill keep it real and thanks for reading. ;)

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