Tuesday, January 18, 2011

Mexican Birth cirtificate

Oh boy here we go again with paper work. This is one big reason I'm done having more babies. Ok it really wasn't all that bad but here goes. In Mexico as many of you know you dont get to just fill out paperwork while in the hospital and they send you the birth certificate. Here you have to take your newborn to the Registro Civil to register them. We knew we had to have two witnesses and one of the papers from the hospital. Attempt one went something like this. First we crammed my family into my Jimmy, me driving, mom in front seat and papi in back with all three girls holding my 4 year old. Yes I said holding. We only have two seat belts in back seat so Alana has been with out one. Its driving me crazy and hopefully we will have the money soon to put one in for her. Sorry that was off subject.
Then we went to pick up Melissa (thank you so much, we couldn't have done this with out you). She then was the one crammed in the back seat with two car seats and Alana and Papi sat in the back of the Jimmy together. Needless to say we did it true Mexican style crammed in like a clown car. We find the Civil office and go on in. The lady took one look at our paper from the hospital and said it was missing a date. It had the babies birth date but that it was missing the date that it was filled out. I said, oh well it was only two days after she was born just put the date on there. No, she says that now along with the date we need it re-stamped by the hospital to prove they were the ones to put the date on it. We leave a little upset but really we know as always that soemthing was bound to happen. We brought Melissa to work and went to get a bite to eat. So much for having my mom as one of the witnesses it was her last week here.
Last week we got my boss with us in the Jimmy and Melissa followed us this time and we went to find a different office. (because we just filled in the missing date). After finding the office which was all tagged up with graffiti we went in and told the lady why we were there. Ok she said, let me see your paperwork to be sure you have everything. The second she started examining my FM2 I knew we were in trouble. Why you may wonder well with Joslin they didn't even ask for my immigration status. My FM2 is currently in process at the immigration office of being renewed. I did not bring the paper stating this because like I said before it never even came up. She noticed that the date was up in December and said we would have to wait until I get the new one back. This was not an option for us for a couple reasons. For one this was the second time I had pulled two people out of their daily activities to witness for me, and two the baby needs her immunizations and cannot get them with out a birth certificate. After some discussion with the jefe Issac said they can do it but will have to put a note on her birth certificate that I am here illegally. The man assured Issac over and over that this would never cause us problems nor cause us to have to pay a fee at any point. I sure hope he is right. So we got copies of everyone's passports and current visa status (because everyone except Issac where Americans)and a copy of the babies hospital paper. We all signed and almost an hour and half after getting there we were finally on our way. So for the rest of Lily´s life it will appear that I was illegal. I really hope this never comes back to haunt us somehow.
So in case you didn't catch it all you need is the report of birth from the hospital (totally filled out) the mom, dad, two wittiness and copies of everyone's ID´s and immigration status if not Mexicans. And you walk out with the birth certificate. You can always go back and request copies. Dont get copies right away because most of the time when you need them they have to be copies you received with int a certain time.

Ok I need to go now Alana is sitting in the floor next to me singing a song about how mommy wont talk to her. lol
Let me know if I left anything out.

8 comments:

  1. Yikes....me and my husband have discussed having another baby and whether to have it hear or go back to the states. I feel like there is no "good" option...

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  2. Oh my, sounds like a nightmare...sort of!! I`d be so skeptical of having that put on the birth certificate, but seems like you were stuck between a rock and a hard place!!!

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  3. Hello, I am a new follower and was reading your blog and had a question: Will it be difficult to travel back to the U.S with Lily? Do you know what kind of paperwork you'll have to fix in order to take her? I ask because my husband and I are planning to have a child but going back to the U.S by myself to give birth seems scary to me. Especially because it will be my first child.

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  4. Rebecca- Here is the thing its totaly a personal choice. To be honest the paperwork is not that huge of a deal. It is easier physicaly if you have the child in the states... BUT spiritually and menatly for me anyway its better to have them here with the papi in the room. My birthing process with Alana was extreamly tramatic emotionaly and I would never go through it again if I didnt have to. Ill do paperwork for months just to be able to have Issac with me during labor and delivery.

    OMT- yep gotta love that rock and hard place. Ill keep you posted on if it causes us problems down the road.
    Trinidad- welcom amiga and thanks for the questions. Right now I can not take her back but I will be able to as soon as I apply for her US citizenship and her passport. I had my second daughter here and have already been through the process, its not all that bad. Here is a link to the post I wrote when I got hers done. Im sad to say there isnt a lot of information on it and apparently I never went back like I said I would and put details. So sorry. This time around I will be sure to post the specifics. :)
    http://bordersaside.blogspot.com/2009/05/getting-babies-us-citizenship-part-1.html

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  5. Rebecca- Here is the thing its totaly a personal choice. To be honest the paperwork is not that huge of a deal. It is easier physicaly if you have the child in the states... BUT spiritually and menatly for me anyway its better to have them here with the papi in the room. My birthing process with Alana was extreamly tramatic emotionaly and I would never go through it again if I didnt have to. Ill do paperwork for months just to be able to have Issac with me during labor and delivery.

    OMT- yep gotta love that rock and hard place. Ill keep you posted on if it causes us problems down the road.
    Trinidad- welcom amiga and thanks for the questions. Right now I can not take her back but I will be able to as soon as I apply for her US citizenship and her passport. I had my second daughter here and have already been through the process, its not all that bad. Here is a link to the post I wrote when I got hers done. Im sad to say there isnt a lot of information on it and apparently I never went back like I said I would and put details. So sorry. This time around I will be sure to post the specifics. :)
    http://bordersaside.blogspot.com/2009/05/getting-babies-us-citizenship-part-1.html

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  6. Thanks Amanda! I think I will actually consider giving birth in Mexico with my husband. Looking forward to hearing more of your experiences with Lily.

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  7. Oh Lord. I realized my daughters name was spelled wrong on her social security card the other day. intead of rodriguez they wrote rodriques with a q. I have to get that fix and was bitching about what a pain in the butt it was going to be. Ummm not so much all i have to do is fill out one paper and mail ti in with her orig birth cert. EASY I KNOW> THanks your never ending paperwork issues make me wan t to be thankful get off my toosh and do it. Stephanie

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  8. AWL- I was reading your blog the other day and it looks like your doing some fun sewing. Sorry I didnt comment I was trying to read a lot that day. ;)Yes it can be a pain but we will get through it. lol

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